Let the Texting Begin!
Quick update, blogosphere.
I got a reply from K, Bachelor #8. He included his phone number and an invitation to "call or text." For a second email, this might be a little quick. However, I'm becoming increasingly cynical and at the same time savvy about this whole Match thing, and for whatever reason I trust him. So, I replied and included my own phone number.
I haven't texted him yet. Maybe tomorrow. We'll see if he texts first. No need whatsoever to rush this.
Meanwhile, I'm still wrestling with the spectre of P. I've drafted a blog post about it, about how we were only dating in reality a short time and we were never exclusive, yet certain things are just tainted because of conversations or experiences I had with him. If I ever have a real boyfriend, if and when that goes south I'm going to be a true hot mess.
Still, every day the spectre gets less and less. Having a new interest who is truly funny and seems very sincere, one who is upfront about wanting to be friends first, is helping me. There's a very long way to go yet with K, and who knows who else may enter the mix here.
For the time being, though, I'm actually fairly content.
I got a reply from K, Bachelor #8. He included his phone number and an invitation to "call or text." For a second email, this might be a little quick. However, I'm becoming increasingly cynical and at the same time savvy about this whole Match thing, and for whatever reason I trust him. So, I replied and included my own phone number.
I haven't texted him yet. Maybe tomorrow. We'll see if he texts first. No need whatsoever to rush this.
Meanwhile, I'm still wrestling with the spectre of P. I've drafted a blog post about it, about how we were only dating in reality a short time and we were never exclusive, yet certain things are just tainted because of conversations or experiences I had with him. If I ever have a real boyfriend, if and when that goes south I'm going to be a true hot mess.
Still, every day the spectre gets less and less. Having a new interest who is truly funny and seems very sincere, one who is upfront about wanting to be friends first, is helping me. There's a very long way to go yet with K, and who knows who else may enter the mix here.
For the time being, though, I'm actually fairly content.
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